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Learning that a child has hearing loss can be an incredibly intense and difficult time for parents. Many parents describe feeling horribly overwhelmed. Rachel Coleman, the mother of a child with hearing impairment, wrote on her blog about receiving her daughter’s diagnosis: “When we did hear her diagnosis. . . we mourned. We cried. We felt silly. We couldn’t believe it. We thought there was a mistake. We hoped it would go away. We felt all of that and more at once!”
But, like the Colemans and many parents have come to realize, in the long run mourning isn’t the best response. After all, the child may have been hearing poorly for months or years; now that you know what’s going on, she’ll be able to hear and communicate that much better. And now, we have the inspiring examples of many parents who have chosen not to reduce their expectations for their children’s quality of life simply because those children are less able to hear.
Advocating for a child who has hearing loss can be an uphill fight. Some parents immediately encounter support. Depending on the resources where you live, you may immediately have access to parents of other children with hearing impairment, an audiologist, a pediatric otolaryngologist, a speech pathologist, a social worker, or other professionals who can help you on your way–but not everyone has a team assembled for them. Unfortunately, support resources are nowhere near this bountiful. Many parents report that, in coming through this emotionally difficult experience, other parents who have been through the same thing are incredibly helpful.
Children who have hearing loss, like any other children, are capable of wonderful things. There’s nothing about not being able to hear as well that makes someone less emotionally sensitive, or less physically or intellectually capable. Parents who fight for their child who has hearing loss–fight for education, social opportunities, and the child’s sense of his or her own competence–will definitely see the benefits as time goes by.



